Knowledge Base

Common Law

Do we need a separation agreement if we weren’t married?

Yes. An agreement is the only way to "shut the door" on future legal claims. It documents your parenting plan, confirms child support, and—crucially—contains a "release" where both parties agree not to sue for spousal support or property in the future.

How is child support different for common-law parents?

It is not different. The Federal Child Support Guidelines apply to all children regardless of whether their parents were married, common-law, or never lived together. The support is the right of the child, and the rules for calculation are identical across Ontario.

What is a “Constructive Trust” claim in property division?

This is a claim made by an unmarried partner who says: "I worked on your house/business for years, and it's unfair for you to keep all the value." If you can prove your contribution increased the asset's value, a court can grant you a share of that asset even if you...

Finance

Can I take my name off a joint mortgage before the divorce is final?

The only way to remove a name from a mortgage is to either sell the home or have the other spouse "refinance" the property. The bank will require a signed Separation Agreement and proof that the remaining spouse has enough income to carry the debt on their own before...

What if my spouse hides assets during the disclosure process?

Full, frank financial disclosure is a cornerstone of Ontario law. If a spouse hides assets (like secret crypto or offshore accounts), any agreement you sign is legally "voidable." This means a court can throw it out years later, forcing a total renegotiation and...

How do we divide our assets in an Ontario divorce?

Ontario operates under the "Equalization of Net Family Property" system. You calculate your net worth growth from the date of marriage to the date of separation. The spouse with the higher growth (the "Net Family Property") typically pays half the difference to the...

How We Work

How do we handle remote-work expenses in our parenting plan?

Remote work (WFH) offers unique flexibility for parenting time. We can build a schedule that leverages this—for example, mid-day school pickups or earlier transitions. We also address who claims the "Home Office" tax deductions to ensure the financial plan is...

Can a chatbot help us draft our initial thoughts for mediation?

Yes! We use digital intake tools to help you organize your "wants," "needs," and financial data before you ever speak to a mediator. This "pre-work" saves hours of billed time and allows us to focus on the actual negotiation during our live sessions.

Is an AI-generated separation agreement valid in Ontario?

No. While AI can create a "template," it cannot account for the specific legal requirements of the Ontario Family Law Act or ensure that the "Full Disclosure" requirement was met. To be legally binding and "court-proof," your agreement must be drafted or reviewed by...

Kids and Divorce

How do we handle holiday schedules and summer vacations?

A good agreement eliminates annual "negotiations." We help you set a fixed rotation (e.g., Parent A has the first half of Christmas in even years). We also include a "Right of First Refusal," meaning if a parent can't be with the kids for a long period, they must...

When does child support end in Ontario?

Support usually continues past age 18 if a child is a "dependent," which almost always includes being enrolled in a full-time university or college program. Support generally continues until the child completes their first undergraduate degree, provided they are...

Am I entitled to spousal support (alimony)?

Entitlement isn't automatic. It's based on: Compensatory (you stayed home to raise kids/support their career), Non-compensatory (you have financial need following the split), or Contractual (your marriage contract says so). We use the Spousal Support Advisory...

Logistics of Separation

What documents do I need to bring to my first session?

You should prepare your last 3 years of tax returns (NOAs), recent pay stubs, current statements for all bank and investment accounts, a mortgage statement, and a pension valuation if applicable. Being organized with these documents is the fastest way to lower your...

Can we use mediation to change an existing agreement?

Absolutely. Many couples return to us years later when their circumstances change—such as a job loss, a significant raise, or a child moving away for university. We can mediate an "Amending Agreement" to update your support or parenting terms legally.

Does your agreement hold up in court if someone challenges it?

Yes. A properly mediated, signed, and witnessed Separation Agreement is a legally binding contract in Ontario. As long as there was full financial disclosure and both parties understood what they were signing, the agreement is highly durable and enforceable in court.

The Process

Can I use a DIY divorce kit for an Ontario separation?

While DIY kits are available, they are often "one-size-fits-all" and may not comply with 2026 Ontario rules regarding pension valuation (FSRA standards) or digital assets. A mistake in a DIY agreement can lead to it being overturned in court. Legal Boutique provides a...

What are the 2026 court filing fees for a divorce in Ontario?

As of January 2026, the mandatory government filing fees in Ontario are approximately $694 ($224 for the initial application, $445 for the divorce order request, and $25 for the final certificate). These fees are paid directly to the Minister of Finance and are the...

Safety and Mutual Respect

Why is mediation better for kids than a courtroom?

Court is an "adversarial" system where parents are forced to point out each other's flaws to "win." Mediation is a "collaborative" system where parents work together as a team. Reducing parental conflict is the #1 factor in a child's successful adjustment to a...

How do we stay “friends” or civil after the split?

Civility starts with the process you choose. By avoiding the "lawyer letters" and court dates that tend to destroy trust, mediation preserves the relationship. You don't have to be best friends, but you do need to be "business partners" in the upbringing of your...

What if my spouse is being unreasonable about the house?

We move the focus from "wants" to "market reality." We bring in neutral third-party experts—like appraisers or mortgage brokers—whose data-driven reports can break the deadlock. When the conversation is about "the numbers" instead of "the feelings," unreasonable...

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