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How Mediation Works in Ontario

What is the “90-day reconciliation rule” in Ontario?

The law allows couples to try living together for one period of up to 90 days to see if they can reconcile. If the reconciliation fails, you can move back apart and continue your 365-day separation clock from your original date, without having to start the one-year...

Who is responsible for debt in a common-law split?

Unlike married couples, common-law partners are generally only responsible for debts in their own name. However, for joint debts (like a shared car loan), both remain 100% liable to the bank. Mediation is used to decide who will pay the debt or how to refinance it to...

Do I need a separation agreement if we don’t have kids?

Yes. Even without children, a separation agreement is vital to formally "waive" or set the terms for spousal support and to finalize the division of property and debts. Without a signed agreement, your ex-spouse could potentially...

How do I prove our separation date to the court?

If your date of separation is challenged, the court looks for "external markers" of a breakup. This includes moving into separate residences, changing your marital status on CRA filings, notifying bank or insurance providers, or—most importantly—having that date...

What happens if my spouse won’t sign the separation agreement?

If a spouse refuses to sign, we first look at the "Why." Often, it is a lack of information or a feeling of unfairness. We use "Shuttle Mediation" to address these concerns privately. If the impasse remains, you may need a lawyer to send a formal offer, but most...

Can I use a DIY divorce kit for an Ontario separation?

While DIY kits are available, they are often "one-size-fits-all" and may not comply with 2026 Ontario rules regarding pension valuation (FSRA standards) or digital assets. A mistake in a DIY agreement can lead to it being overturned in court. Legal Boutique provides a...

What are the 2026 court filing fees for a divorce in Ontario?

As of January 2026, the mandatory government filing fees in Ontario are approximately $694 ($224 for the initial application, $445 for the divorce order request, and $25 for the final certificate). These fees are paid directly to the Minister of Finance and are the...

How do I legally separate in Ontario without a lawyer?

Legal separation in Ontario is a status, not a document you file. It begins when you and your spouse live "separate and apart" with no intention of reconciling. To make it legally enforceable, you should negotiate a Separation Agreement through professional mediation....

What are the first steps to take when we decide to separate?

The first step is to establish a clear "Date of Separation," which acts as the valuation snapshot for your finances. You should immediately begin gathering three years of financial disclosure (Notice of Assessments, bank statements, and pension values). At Legal...

Do we need to go to a courthouse to be “legally” separated?

No, you do not need a court order or a "Certificate of Separation" to be considered legally separated in Ontario. The law looks at the facts of your life: have you stopped living as a couple? While you don't file papers to start the separation, you must eventually...

How long do we have to be separated before filing for divorce?

Under the Divorce Act, you must be separated for at least one full year (365 days) before a judge can grant a final Divorce Order. However, you do not have to wait a year to finalize your finances or parenting plans. You can negotiate, sign, and begin living by your...

Can we be separated but still live in the same house?

Yes, Ontario law recognizes that many couples must stay in the same home for financial or parenting reasons. To prove you are "separate but living under one roof," you must demonstrate a withdrawal from the matrimonial relationship, such as sleeping in separate rooms,...

Is a verbal agreement between spouses legally binding in Ontario?

No. A verbal "handshake" agreement regarding property or support is not enforceable under Ontario’s Family Law Act. To be legally binding, a separation agreement must be in writing, signed by both parties, and witnessed by a third party. Without these formalities,...

Do I need a separation agreement if we don’t have kids?

Yes. Even without children, a separation agreement is vital to formally "waive" or set the terms for spousal support and to finalize the division of property and debts. Without a signed agreement, your ex-spouse could potentially...

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Located in the heart of Whitby and proudly serving the Durham Region, Legal Boutique provides accessible family mediation services without the commute. While we regularly assist clients locally in Oshawa, Ajax, Pickering, and Clarington office we also offer vurtual mediation to serve the entire Greater Toronto Area (GTA) and beyond.

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Do I need a separation agreement if we don’t have kids?

Yes. Even without children, a separation agreement is vital to formally "waive" or set the terms for spousal support and to finalize the division of property and debts. Without a signed agreement, your ex-spouse could potentially...

How do I prove our separation date to the court?

If your date of separation is challenged, the court looks for "external markers" of a breakup. This includes moving into separate residences, changing your marital status on CRA filings, notifying bank or insurance providers, or—most importantly—having that date...

What happens if my spouse won’t sign the separation agreement?

If a spouse refuses to sign, we first look at the "Why." Often, it is a lack of information or a feeling of unfairness. We use "Shuttle Mediation" to address these concerns privately. If the impasse remains, you may need a lawyer to send a formal offer, but most...

Areas We Serve

We have optimized our practice to serve the Greater Toronto Area (GTA) and the entire province of Ontario virtually. Whether you are avoiding the commute from Toronto or Markham, or seeking assistance from Ottawa or London, our secure remote process ensures you receive the same high-quality mediation services from the comfort of your home.

Local (In-Person or Remote)

  • Oshawa
  • Ajax
  • Pickering
  • Brooklin
  • Bowmanville & Courtice

Greater Toronto Area (GTA)

  • Toronto & Scarborough

  • Markham & Richmond Hill

  • Vaughan

  • Mississauga

  • Brampton

  • Newmarket

Ontario-Wide (Remotely)

  • Ottawa

  • Hamilton

  • London

  • Kingston

  • Barrie

  • Sudbury & North